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Feast of Our Lady of Dolors

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Alsace, Haut-Rhin, Colmar, Musée d’UnterLinden : la descente de Croix, les larmes de Marie. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Today, the feast of Our Lady of Dolors, is our province feast day.

The North American Province of the Sisters of the Cross and Passion, Our Lady of Dolors Province, was erected by the General Council in 1950, twenty-six years after the first Passionist Sisters arrived in the United States. They elected Sister Pascal Grogan, C.P. as the first Provincial.

The late Sister Kathleen Mary Burke, C.P. recalled in her tape-recorded memoirs that the erection of the North American Province was unexpected by the sisters in North America. On the day the document arrived the sisters at the Assumption were enjoying a day out. (This meant that they took their meals out of the refectory and so did not have to keep silence while they ate.) At the end of the evening meal, Sister Pascal who was the local superior stood up and began to read the decree. Part of the way through she began to cry. Unable to continue she passed the document to Sister Arcadius who read as much as she could of it before she broke down and had to pass it on to the next person. By the end everyone was crying.” Why tears? The road to this moment had been long and hard. There hadn’t been in Sister Concepta’s words much “sunshine on Calvary.” Naming Our Lady of Dolors as the patron of our province was an appropriate choice.

Our Lady of DolorsDevotion to our Blessed Mother as Our Lady of Dolors has a long history in the Church and within the Passionist Community. St. Paul of the Cross wrote:

“My heart breaks when I think of the sorrows of the most holy Virgin. Oh tender Mother, unutterable was Thy grief in finding Thyself deprived of your dear Son, and then in beholding Him dead in Thy arms! Ah! who can realize the sadness of Mary when She returned to Bethany after the burial of her Son? Jesus expires on the cross! He is dead that we may have life. All creation mourns: the sun darkens, the earth trembles, the rocks burst, and the veil of the temple is rent in twain; my heart alone remains harder than a rock!

All I say to you now is, console the poor Mother of Jesus. It is a miracle that She does not die; She is absorbed in the sufferings of Jesus. Imitate Her, and ask the Magdalen and the beloved disciple St. John what are their sentiments.”

This feast day was originated by a provincial synod of Cologne in 1423. It was designated for the Friday after the third Sunday after Easter. Before the 16th century, the feast was celebrated only in parts of northern Europe. Over the centuries several devotions, and even orders, arose around meditation on Mary’s Sorrows in particular. In 1913, Pope Pius X moved the feast to September 15, the day after the Feast of the Triumph of the Cross, another day of celebration for Passionists.

The Chaplet of the Seven Dolors is a traditional devotion of our community. The chapel windows at our retreat center, Our Lady of Calvary, depict the seven sorrows of Mary. Meditation on these sorrows not only unite us more closely with our Blessed Mother but also connect us with and fill us with compassion for our contemporaries, especially women, who suffer as she did.

O God, who in this season
give your Church the grace
to imitate devoutly the Blessed Virgin Mary
in contemplating the Passion of Christ,
grant, we pray, through her intercession,
that we may cling more firmly each day
to your Only Begotten Son
and come at last to the fullness of his grace.

Sister Kathleen Mary Burke, C.P. (1914-2014)

0001219582-01-1_20140206Sister Kathleen Mary Burke, C.P., formerly Sister Bertrand, 99, of the Cross and Passion, died peacefully on Tuesday, February 4, 2014 at Scalabrini Villa in North Kingstown. She was born in Dublin, Ireland, the daughter of the late James and Evelyn (Bergin) Burke. Sister Kathleen came to the United States in 1931 and taught for several years at the Assumption School in Providence. She also taught at Corpus Christi School in Connecticut. Sister was the Religious Coordinator at St. Mary, Star of the Sea in Narragansett and for twenty years, she ministered in Jamaica, West Indies beginning at the age of seventy, returning to the U.S. in 2006 for health reasons.

In addition to her sisters and the Congregation, she is survived by her sister Rose and nieces and nephews. She was the sister of the late Fr. Edmond Burke, C.P., Evelyn, Patrick and Austin Burke.

Relatives and friends are invited to attend a Mass of Christian Burial on Friday, February 7th at 9 a.m. in St. Bernard’s Church, 275 Tower Hill Rd., North Kingstown, followed by burial at St. Francis Cemetery, Wakefield. VISITING HOURS ARE THURSDAY (TODAY) from 5 p.m. to 7 p.m. at the NARDOLILLO FUNERAL HOME & Crematory-SOUTH COUNTY CHAPEL, 1111 Boston Neck Rd. (Rt. 1A) Narragansett.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made payable to: Catholic College of Mandeville and sent to Sister Aideen Langan, C.P., One Wright Lane, North Kingstown, RI 02852.

Elizabeth Prout

elizabeth proutWhat inspires you?  The word “inspire” means, literally, to breathe in.  When we come in contact with someone or something that resonates with our own hearts, we are inspired. We stop and breathe IN, and our own spirit is changed by what has inspired us.

We can learn much about ourselves by paying attention to those things, people, situations, that capture our attention and inspire us.

Elizabeth Prout, who lived and worked in England in the mid-nineteenth century, was inspired by several things.  At an early age she was drawn to Catholicism, and to the needs of the poor, especially women and children who were in so many ways victimized by the societal changes brought about by the Industrial Revolution. Finally, she was inspired by the Passionist charism as preached and lived by the Passionists in England.

All these elements came together in her to shape her spirit, her own charism, in a very unique way. Today, we can say without hesitation that it was the charism of Elizabeth Prout that brought her to actions filled with courage and virtue.  It was her charism that led her to teach and to care for the poor in so many ways.  It was her charism that led Elizabeth to make religious life available to women who did not have the usually required financial resources. It was her charism that led her to give of herself, her energies and her abilities until she could give no more.  It was her charism that strengthened Elizabeth to withstand so much persecution, betrayal and misunderstanding, and still maintain her trust in the plan of God for her life.

Currently, the life and work of our beloved Elizabeth Prout is undergoing close scrutiny in Rome as part of the process of canonization.  This process was begun some years ago in the Archdiocese of Liverpool, in England.  There, all the historical information about Elizabeth’s life and work was collected and carefully documented.  When this process was complete, all the findings were sent to the Vatican, to the Congregation for the Causes of the Saints, where the second stage of the process is now underway.

The key to canonization, simply stated, is the exercise of heroic virtue.  Virtue, our theology tells us, is participation in the life of the Trinity, the source of all virtue and holiness.  The existence of virtue in an individual is proved through the actions of the individual.  Truly, in this canonization process, actions speak louder than words!

We trust that Elizabeth Prout’s exercise of heroic virtue will be proved through a study of her actions. It is the same for each of us.  Our virtue is seen, or not, in our actions:  in how we treat others, how we serve, how we live out the Gospel values given to us by Jesus.

If we are inspired by the life and work of Elizabeth Prout, our prayer will be that her virtue will be recognized by the whole Church.  The inspiration we take from her will make our own spirits stronger, and our personal charism will be enriched by hers.

– Sister Elissa Rinere, C.P.

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Sister Madeline Pucella, C.P.

On April 15, 1928 I was born at home in the little village of Peace Dale, RI, near Narragansett Bay.  A month later I was baptized at St. Francis of Assisi Church and given the name of Madalena.  My parents, Luke and Henrietta, presented a baby sister to my brother Dan, who was four years old.

Sister Madeline PucellaMy first introduction to my Catholic faith came when I was about three.  Every night when I went to bed, my mother helped me to make the Sign of the Cross. Later I entered the Stepping Stone Kindergarten where I learned to play with other children.  One spring I was chosen Queen of the Maypole, a yearly tradition, and I wore a beautiful white dress my mother made for me.  Two years later I entered Peace Dale Grammar School.  During this time we had Catechism at church every Tuesday and Thursday. When I was eight, I received my first Holy Communion and it was a really special day for me.  I had waited a long time for this event.  Every week I went to confession and assisted at Mass and loved to receive the Eucharist on Sundays.

In 1939 the World’s Fair was held in New York.  My dad, aunt, uncle and I went by train, my first trip to the big city.  Being a country girl, I was amazed at the huge, high buildings, thousands of people, loads of noise and traffic.  The fair was spectacular with so many exhibits from all over the world and many new inventions, especially the introduction of television, which was really most fascinating.  When TV was finally on the market to be sold, my dad was the first to purchase one and placed it in the window of our store so people could watch it.

Sister Madeline PucellaSeveral special events happened in 1941, my graduation from 8th grade, my confirmation, my entrance into high school and the beginning of WW2.  I loved high school, had many friends and worked hard at my studies.  My free time was spent going to the movies, roller skating, ice skating, riding my bike, working in my dad’s store, helping my mother, who worked at night, and being responsible for my two younger sisters, Marie and Carolyn. My brother Dan was in the navy.  While in high school, I assisted at 7:00 am Mass every morning and in the afternoon many of us would go to the church hall to do homework, play the juke box or have a game of basketball.

In 1944 three Passionist Sisters were invited by our pastor to take charge of teaching catechism and visiting the homes in the parish.  Most parishioners had never seen nuns before, so it was a new experience for all.  When I was a junior in high school, our pastor asked two of my friends and me to help the Sisters teach the younger children after school. During the year I became very fond of them and often helped in many ways.  Sometimes they invited me to pray with them in the chapel (in Latin and English). A Sister gave me my first spiritual reading book, The Autobiography of St. Therese, the Little Flower.  I was very impressed with her deep desire to become a Carmelite Nun and to live a beautiful life of prayer, devotion and intense love of God.

One day in January the Superior and I were doing a project and just having some casual conversation, when she asked me a question I shall never forget, “Have you ever thought of being a Sister?” Suddenly, without any thought or hesitation I said, “YES!”  Why my answer was so spontaneous I will never know, but it must have been God who intervened and changed my whole life.  My future plan was to be a private secretary to a rich woman and travel the world.  It never happened!  I hurried home to tell my parents what I had done and they were very happy, gave me permission and provided all that I needed.  I left high school after my Junior Year and entered the novitiate of the Passionist Sisters in Bristol, RI.

I have now been 67 years in religious life.  I am so grateful that God chose me specially to be a Sister of the Cross and Passion.  My daily prayer has always been of a deep appreciation for my vocation and that my love for Jesus and the crucified of the world will always be in my heart.  Deo gratias.

– Sister Madeline Pucella, C.P.

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Account of Me

After spending twenty of my 56 years of religious life in retreat ministry, I entered a new stage in 2010 when I moved to Union City, NJ, where I reside with Sister Mary Ann Strain in an apartment building erected on the footprint of what used to be St. Michael’s Passionist Monastery.

union cityAccording to the 2010 census, Union City has a population of 64,405, slightly less than in 2000 when it was the most densely populated city in the United States.  In September, 2009 it had an unemployment rate of 15%, highest in the state of New Jersey. 20% of its people live below the poverty line.  In spite of its location atop the majestic Palisades and the views of the Manhattan skyline, the city is anything but beautiful.

The picture sounds bleak; yet Union City is actually quite a pleasant place to live: safe, friendly, well equipped with local businesses and public transportation. In the two years since Mary Ann and I have been in our apartment, I have become fond of Union City. Neighbors and salespersons and the UPS man have become familiar faces.  It seems natural to hear more Spanish than English.

Until last June a community of Passionist men lived across the street in what was once The Sign building. I spent several afternoons a week amid their provincial archives, as well as daily joining the community for Evening Prayer and Mass.  That routine came to an end when the offices were moved to Rye Brook, NY, and the community was reassigned.

However, I now find myself on the brink of a new “career” as part-time librarian at nearby St. Augustine’s School.  The library science I never wanted to study is coming in handy once again.  One duty will be to reading stories to the little ones.  That should be fun.  All in all, I look forward to welcoming children as I used to welcome retreatants as they crossed the threshold of Our Lady of Calvary Retreat Center.

– Sr. Mary O’Brien, C.P.

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